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Ïîðÿäêè ëþáâè: Ðàçðåøåíèå ñåìåéíî-ñèñòåìíûõ êîíôëèêòîâ è ïðîòèâîðå÷èéÎÃËÀÂËÅÍÈÅÏðåäèñëîâèå ê ðóññêîìó èçäàíèþ...............................................................11 Ïðåäèñëîâèå............................................................................................... 12 Ïîçíàíèå ïóòåì îòêàçà...............................................................................15 Ïîçíàíèå............................................................................................. 16 Íàó÷íûé è ôåíîìåíîëîãè÷åñêèé ïóòü ïîçíàíèÿ............................. 17 Ôåíîìåíîëîãè÷åñêèé ìåòîä...............................................................17 Îòêàç îò íàìåðåíèé............................................................................ 18 Ìóæåñòâî............................................................................................. 18 Ñîãëàñèå.............................................................................................. 18 Ôèëîñîôñêàÿ ôåíîìåíîëîãèÿ............................................................19 Ôåíîìåíîëîãè÷åñêèé ìåòîä â ïñèõîòåðàïèè....................................20 Äóøà.....................................................................................................21 Ðåëèãèîçíàÿ ôåíîìåíîëîãèÿ..............................................................22 Âîçâðàùåíèå........................................................................................22 Ñåìåéíî-ñèñòåìíûå ïåðåïëåòåíèÿ è èõ ðàçðåøåíèÿ. Ñàìîïîçíàâàòåëüíûé è îáðàçîâàòåëüíûé êóðñ........,..............................25 Äåíü ïåðâûé..........................................................................................26 Îïàñíîå ïîâåäåíèå.............................................................................26 Íàáëþäåíèå ñàìîãî ñåáÿ ïðè ðàññòàíîâêå.......................................27 Áîëüøå èëè ìåíüøå............................................................................28 Äâîéíîé ïåðåíîñ..................................................................................28 Ñòàðøèíñòâî ïåðâîé æåíùèíû.....................................................29 Ñ÷àñòüå ïóãàåò................................................................................30 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ñûí ïðèíèìàåò ðîëü áðàòà ìàòåðè........................30 Ðàçíèöà ìåæäó èäåíòèôèêàöèåé è èäåàëîì.................................38 Ïðèíöèï ìèíèìàëèçìà....................................................................38 Èíäèâèäóàöèÿ óìåíüøàåò áëèçîñòü â îòíîøåíèÿõ ìåæäó ëþäüìè ... 39 Ëþáîâü è ïîðÿäîê...........................................................................40 Èåðàðõèÿ ïðèíàäëåæíîñòè................................................................41 Ïðåâîñõîäñòâî ïåðâîé ñâÿçè..........................................................41 Èåðàðõèÿ ïîðÿäêîâ.............................................................................42 Èåðàðõèÿ âíóòðè ñåìåéñòâ.................................................................42 Èíòèìíàÿ ñôåðà..................................................................................43 Ðàíã îòíîøåíèé â ñëó÷àå ðàçâîäà.....................................................43 Èåðàðõèÿ â îðãàíèçàöèÿõ...................................................................45 Âîçðàæåíèå..........................................................................................46 Ðåøåíèå íå èìåòü äåòåé.....................................................................47 Îñóùåñòâëåííîå è íåîñóùåñòâëåííîå...............................................47 Ïîñëåäñòâèÿ ïîäîáíîãî âûáîðà äëÿ îòíîøåíèé.................................48 Âðàæäåáíîå íàñòðîåíèå......................................................................48 Ïëîõèå îòìåòêè â øêîëå....................................................................49 Ïåðåæèòûé òðàóð................................................................................49 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Äî÷ü çàìåùàåò óìåðøóþ ñåñòðó îòöà...........................50 Óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå ñèë ñ ïîìîùüþ ïëîõîãî......................................53 Ïîðÿäêè ëþáâè...................................................................................54 Óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå ñ ïîìîùüþ óâàæåíèÿ...........................................55 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Æèçíü çà ñ÷åò äðóãèõ....................................................55 Îíè çäåñü.............................................................................................57 Ïðèçíàíèå ëè÷íîé âèíû - èñòî÷íèê ñèëû.....................................64 Ïîìî÷ü îòöó ñîõðàíèòü ëèöî.............................................................65 Ñòðàäàòü ëåã÷å, ÷åì ðàçðåøèòü ïðîáëåìó.............................................65 Ðàçðåøåíèå ïðîáëåì ïóòåì ñìèðåíèÿ ïðè÷èíÿåò áîëü...................66 Ïðåðâàííîå äâèæåíèå ëþáâè ê........................................................67 Áîëè â ïëå÷àõ......................................................................................69 Ðåøèòü ïðîáëåìó áåç äîëãèõ ðàçäóìèé..............................................69 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ìàòü ïðèãðîçèëà óáèòü ñåáÿ âìåñòå ñ äåòüìè.............70 Ïîñëåäñòâèÿ óãðîçû óáèéñòâà è äðóãèõ òÿæåëûõ ïðåñòóïëåíèé â ñåìüå..............................................................................................76 Ïîòåðÿâøèé ïðàâî íà ïðèíàäëåæíîñòü ê ñèñòåìå äîëæåí óéòè.....78 Äîâåðèå âíóòðåííåé êàðòèíå.............................................................79 Îòâåòñòâåííîñòü òåðàïåâòà.................................................................80 Î ìåòîäå, èñïîëüçîâàííîì ïðè ðàññòàíîâêå ñåìüè Òýè..................81 Ïåðåíÿòîå çàìåøàòåëüñòâî.................................................................81 Óãðîçà ñàìîóáèéñòâà ìàòåðè..............................................................82 Êîíåö...................................................................................................83 Èãðà ñî ñìåðòüþ..................................................................................85 Ìîãèëà.................................................................................................86 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Èçãíàííûå ðîäñòâåííèêè.............................................86 ×ëåíû ñåìåéíîé ñèñòåìû..................................................................92 Æèâûå è ìåðòâûå, óáèéöû è èõ æåðòâû, ñâÿçàííûå ìåæäó ñîáîé îáùåé ñóäüáîé..................................................................................93 Âîçäåéñòâèå âíóòðåííåé êàðòèíû íà ñåìåéíî-ñèñòåìíóþ äèíàìèêó..........................................................................................94 Óãðîçà ñàìîóáèéñòâà ñî ñòîðîíû æåíû.............................................94 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Äî÷ü çàìåùàåò áûâøóþ íåâåñòó îòöà..........................95 Áëàãîïðèÿòíîå ìåñòî äëÿ äåòåé.........................................................99 Áåññîçíàòåëüíàÿ èäåíòèôèêàöèÿ ñ áûâøèì ïàðòíåðîì îäíîãî èç ðîäèòåëåé........................................................................100 Âîëÿ Áîãà è ÷åëîâåê...........................................................................101 Ìàòü, ñòðàäàþùàÿ íàðêîìàíèåé, è åå ðåáåíîê...............................103 ×òî ïðèâîäèò ê íàðêîòè÷åñêîé çàâèñèìîñòè...................................104 Ïðèñòðàñòèå ê íàðêîòèêàì êàê ñàìîíàêàçàíèå...............................106 Èíòóèöèÿ ñâÿçàíà ñ ëþáîâüþ............................................................107 Èñöåëåíèå ïóòåì äâèæåíèÿ ëþáâè ê ìàòåðè....................................107 Ïðîáëåìà ïðåðâàííîãî äâèæåíèÿ ê ëþáèìîìó ÷åëîâåêó è åå ðåøåíèå....................................................................................108 Ðåøåíèå ïðîáëåìû ñ ïîìîùüþ çàìåñòèòåëåé ðîäèòåëåé................109 Òåðàïèÿ ñ ïîìîùüþ ãëóáîêîãî ïîêëîíà............................................109 Äâèæåíèå ÷åðåç ðîäèòåëåé äàëüøå....................................................111 Äåíü âòîðîé.........................................................................................112 Ìñòèòü, èãðàÿ æåðòâó.........................................................................112 Óâåðåíèå.............................................................................................113 Êîìïåíñàöèÿ......................................................................................113 Íåîæèäàííîå îáëåã÷åíèå..................................................................113 Äîñòèæåíèå ìèðîëþáèâîé ïîçèöèè.................................................113 Ðàñïîçíàòü äèíàìèêó äâîéíîãî ïåðåíîñà.........................................114 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Èñöåëåíèå äâîéíîãî ïåðåíîñà.....................................114 Ïðîùåíèå íå ðåêîìåíäóåòñÿ..............................................................118 Ïîñëåäñòâèÿ äëÿ ðåáåíêà...................................................................119 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Óìåðøèå â äåòñòâå áðàòüÿ............................................120 Ïîëíîòà âðåìåíè................................................................................126 Íàïðàñíàÿ áîðüáà..............................................................................127 Ïåðåíÿòûé òðàóð îñëàáëÿåò...............................................................127 Ïðîáëåìó ìîæíî ðåøèòü, åñëè íå çàöèêëèâàòüñÿ íà íåé...............128 Êîãäà ìû ïåðåãðóæåíû ñ÷àñòüåì.......................................................129 Ðàçâîä è âèíà......................................................................................129 Ïðè ëåãêîìûñëåííîì ðàçâîäå ðîäèòåëåé äåòè íàêàçûâàþò ñàìèõ ñåáÿ........................................................................................130 Èíñòèíêòèâíîå óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå ïîñðåäñòâîì èñêóïëåíèÿ.........130 Âèíà êàê ñðåäñòâî îòðèöàíèÿ ðåàëüíîñòè........................................131 Çíà÷åíèå ñåêñóàëüíûõ îòíîøåíèé ïðè ñîçäàíèè ñèñòåìíûõ ñâÿçåé..............................................................................................132 Îáëàñòü âëèÿíèÿ ìàòåðè....................................................................132 Ðàçëè÷íûå ñïîñîáû «äàâàòü» äðóãèì è «áðàòü» îò äðóãèõ â ñåìüå ... 133 Ëþáîâü ê ïðîáëåìàì..........................................................................134 Ïðèíÿòü íà ñåáÿ ðîëü æåðòâû...........................................................135 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Îòåö — âíåáðà÷íûé ðåáåíîê, îòåö îòöà — çàïðåùåííàÿ òåìà â ñåìüå...............................................................136 Ïàðåíòèôèöèðîâàíèå: Ðåáåíîê ïðèíèìàåò íà ñåáÿ ðîëü ðîäèòåëÿ ïî îòíîøåíèþ ê ñîáñòâåííûì ðîäèòåëÿì.....................141 Èñêóïëåíèå çà ñìåðòü ïðè ðîäàõ.......................................................141 Ñàìîîáìàí.........................................................................................144 Îòåö è ñûí..........................................................................................147 Íåèçâåñòíûé äåäóøêà........................................................................148 Óâàæåíèå ê ìàòåðè.............................................................................148 Ñìåùåííîå óñåðäèå............................................................................149 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Äî÷ü èäåíòèôèöèðóåòñÿ ñ áûâøåé íåâåñòîé îòöà, ïåðåíèìàÿ åå ÷óâñòâà......................................................................150 Îáúåêòèâíàÿ è ñóáúåêòèâíàÿ âèíà ðåáåíêà......................................154 Òîñêà ïî îòöó......................................................................................154 Î ðàíãå ìóæà è æåíû â ñåìüå............................................................155 Æåíà äîëæíà ñëåäîâàòü çà ìóæåì, à ìóæ — ñëóæèòü åé..................156 Íàïðàñíàÿ ëþáîâü.............................................................................157 ×òî ÿ òåáå òàêîãî ñäåëàë, ÷òî ÿ òàê çîë íà òåáÿ?...............................158 Çëîñòü êàê çàùèòà îò áîëè.................................................................159 Ñäåðæàííàÿ çëîñòü.............................................................................159 Î çëîñòè..............................................................................................160 Îñòîðîæíîñòü è ìóæåñòâî.................................................................161 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ñûí çàìåùàåò áûâøåãî æåíèõà ìàòåðè.....................162 Ñåìåéíî-ñèñòåìíûé îðãàí ðàâíîâåñèÿ............................................164 Î ñîâåñòè............................................................................................165 Íåâèíîâíîñòü.....................................................................................166 Ñîâåñòü è óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå..............................................................167 Ïîçèòèâíîå è íåãàòèâíîå óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå....................................167 Ãðàíèöû îáìåíà..................................................................................169 Óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå ñ ïîìîùüþ áëàãîäàðíîñòè è ñìèðåíèÿ..............169 Áåñêîíå÷íàÿ ÿñíîñòü óìà...................................................................170 Îñòàâèòü â ïîêîå òî, ÷òî áûëî..........................................................170 Ïëàìÿ è ïåïåë....................................................................................171 Èñ÷åçíîâåíèå áîëåé âñïèíå.............................................................172 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Íàðóøåííîå ðàâåíñòâî è çàêîí óðàâíîâåøèâàíèÿ.....172 Ðåâíîñòü è óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå............................................................176 Íåâèíîâíîñòü è ìåñòü........................................................................177 Âåðíîñòü è íåâåðíîñòü.......................................................................177 Ïåðåíÿòàÿ ìåñòü.................................................................................178 Ðàçìûøëåíèÿ î íåâèíîâíîñòè..........................................................179 Ïîäàðîê äëÿ ìàòåðè............................................................................179 Ðåøåíèÿ ïðè êðèçèñå ëåãêî ïðèíèìàþòñÿ, êîãäà äîñòèãíóòà åãî êðàéíÿÿ òî÷êà............................................................................179 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Èçìåíåíèå âíóòðåííåé äèíàìèêè...............................180 Äåíü òðåòèé........................................................................................183 Áåñåäû.................................................................................................183 Ïåðåíÿòûå ñèìïòîìû........................................................................183 Åâðåéñêîå ïðîèñõîæäåíèå.................................................................184 ×óâñòâî ìåðû......................................................................................185 Îáëåã÷åíèå.........................................................................................186 Öåíà....................................................................................................186 Èñõîäíîå íåãàòèâíîå ÷óâñòâî è êàê åãî èçìåíèòü...........................188 Èñöåëåíèå ñ ïîìîùüþ ëþáâè............................................................189 Çàïðÿòàííîå ñ÷àñòüå...........................................................................190 Ïîçíàíèå äðóãîãî ðîäà.......................................................................190 Îòäàâàòü ÷òî-òî äðóãîìó, íå ïðèíèìàÿ íè÷åãî âçàìåí....................191 Íîâàÿ òî÷êà çðåíèÿ............................................................................192 Íåîáîñíîâàííûå ïðåäñòàâëåíèÿ îé èäåàëüíîé ñâÿçè......................192 «Äàâàòü» è «áðàòü» â îòíîøåíèÿõ ìåæäó ìóæ÷èíîé è æåíùèíîé ... 193 Ïîçâîëèòü àôôåêòèâíîìó äàâëåíèþ óòå÷ü.......................................194 Ðåëèãèîçíàÿ ïðîáëåìàòèêà...............................................................194 Ïå÷àëü ïî ïîãèáøèì..........................................................................195 Ðîäèòåëè äåòåé-èíâàëèäîâ: êàê èì ïîìî÷ü, ñîõðàíÿÿ èõ äîñòîèíñòâî.....................................................................................195 ×òî ïðîèñõîäèò, êîãäà ðåáåíîê çàíèìàåò íå ñîîòâåòñòâóþùåå ñâîåìó ðàíãó ìåñòî â ñèñòåìå.........................................................196 Íà ïîëïóòè ê ñ÷àñòüþ........................................................................198 Èìåòü èëè íå èìåòü ðåáåíêà..............................................................198 Âòîðàÿ æåíà........................................................................................199 Æåëàíèå áðîñèòü êóðèòü....................................................................200 Ñïîñîá èçáàâèòüñÿ îò ãîëîâíûõ áîëåé........................................ 200 Óâàæàÿ óìåðøèõ, óâàæàòü Áîãà..........................................................201 Îòêàç â óðàâíîâåøèâàíèè............................................................201 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Èäåíòèôèêàöèÿ ìëàäøåé äî÷åðè ñ ìàòåðüþ ìàòåðè ... 202 Ïðèíèìàòü èëè íå ïðèíèìàòü íàñëåäñòâî....................................205 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Âëèÿíèå ñóäüáû......................................................207 Êîðîòêàÿ áåñåäà..............................................................................214 Ñòîÿòü, îïèðàÿñü íà îáå íîãè........................................................214 Ïîáåã îò ïîëíîòû ñ÷àñòüÿ...............................................................214 Î öåëîñòíîñòè ÷åëîâåêà.....................................................................214 Ïðàçäíèê............................................................................................215 Ðàçíèöà ìåæäó ñèìïàòèåé è óâàæåíèåì...........................................216 Ðàâíûå ñðåäè ðàâíûõ..........................................................................216 Ïðèìèðÿþùåå ïîçíàíèå...................................................................217 Î ñâîáîäå è íåñâîáîäå........................................................................218 Ñäåðæàííîñòü îáåñïå÷èâàåò ýíåðãèåé âîñïðèÿòèÿ è ñèëîé............218 Ãðàíèöû íåâèíîâíîñòè......................................................................218 Ïðèçíàíèå ïîñëåäñòâèé íàøèõ ðåøåíèé îáëåã÷àåò æèçíü.............219 Íåîáõîäèìîñòü âíóòðåííåãî óâàæåíèÿ ðîäñòâåííèêîâ...................220 Êàê ïîìî÷ü æåðòâàì ñåêñóàëüíîãî ñîâðàùåíèÿ...............................220 Êàê ïîìî÷ü ÷ëåíàì ñåìüè, ñîâåðøèâøèì ñåêñóàëüíîå ñîâðàùåíèå ðåáåíêà........................................................................225 Ñäåðæàííîñòü.....................................................................................226 Íåãîäîâàíèå.......................................................................................226 Èçìåííèöà.........................................................................................227 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Æåíùèíû, îòîæäåñòâëÿþùèåñÿ ñ áîæåñòâîì â ñåìüå..............................................................................................229 Ïîíÿòü ãîëîñ Áîãà..............................................................................229 Ìóæ÷èíû è æåíùèíû.......................................................................236 Îòñòóïíè÷åñòâî..................................................................................236 Áîëåå âûñîêàÿ âåðà.............................................................................238 Ðàññòàíîâêà: È ìåðòâûå äîëæíû óñòóïàòü ìåñòî â ñèñòåìå.............238 Ïîäàðîê îòæèçíè...............................................................................243 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ðàíî óìåðøèé îòåö.......................................................243 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Âíóòðåííåå ïðåêðàùåíèå ïðåæíèõ îòíîøåíèé..........247 Íåò õóäà áåç äîáðà..............................................................................250 Ñëåäóþùèé øàã..................................................................................251 Îòñóòñòâèèå ñâîáîäû äåéñòâèé â ñåìüÿõ..........................................251 Ìàòü è åå ðåáåíîê.............................................................................252 Âûïîëíåíèå íåîáõîäèìîãî ïî îòíîøåíèþ ê ñîñòàðèâøèìñÿ ðîäèòåëÿì........................................................................................252 Ñìåëîñòü îñóùåñòâèòü íåîáõîäèìîå.................................................252 Áóäóùèå âîçìîæíîñòè.......................................................................253 Õîä æèçíè...........................................................................................254 Óâàæàòü è öåíèòü ïðîøëîå................................................................254 Ïîðÿäêè ïðèíàäëåæíîñòè. Ôðàãìåíòû êóðñà äëÿ ñåìåéíûõ êîíñóëüòàíòîâ...................................................................................255 Ðåøåíèå ïðîáëåìû êàê äóõîâíûé ïðîöåññ.......................................256 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Óñûíîâëåíèå ïðè íåñïîñîáíîñòè èìåòü äåòåé...........257 Ïëàòà çà óñûíîâëåíèå........................................................................262 Î÷åðåäíîñòü îòâåòñòâåííîñòè...........................................................263 Âîçðàæåíèÿ ó÷àñòíèêîâ.....................................................................263 Ïðàâî ðåáåíêà íà ñîáñòâåííûõ ðîäèòåëåé........................................265 Èñöåëåíèå, íàïðàâëåííîå òîëüêî íà ïîìîùü æåðòâå......................265 Ñëåäóþùèé øàã..................................................................................266 Ðåøåíèå ïðîáëåìû ïóòåì åå ðåøåíèÿ..............................................268 Óæàñíîå..............................................................................................269 Ñîñòðàäàíèå è èñêóññòâî çàáûâàòü....................................................270 ×òî âàæíåå..........................................................................................271 Âèíà è åå âîçäåéñòâèå íå çàâèñÿò îò ïîëà......................................271 Íåîáõîäèìîñòü îòêàçàòüñÿ îò âîçðàæåíèé........................................271 Ïîíèìàíèå ñóùíîñòè ïðîáëåì è èñöåëåíèå....................................272 Çàâåùàííûå äåòè................................................................................274 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Óñûíîâëåíèå âíåáðà÷íîãî ðåáåíêà æåíû....................275 Âîçâðàùåíèå......................................................................................280 Ïðè÷èíû çàáîëåâàíèé â ñåìüÿõ è èõ èñöåëåíèå. Ôðàãìåíòû ñåìèíàðà äëÿ ïàöèåíòîâ, òåðàïåâòîâ è âðà÷åé, îðãàíèçîâàííîãî â ðàìêàõ ìåæäóíàðîäíîé êîíôåðåíöèè «Ìåäèöèíà è ðåëèãèÿ»..............................................................................283 Ââåäåíèå...............................................................................................284 Íåáî è Çåìëÿ.......................................................................................284 Ñåìåéíûå ãðóïïû, ñâÿçàííûå îáùåé ñóäüáîé..................................284 Ñåìåéíî-ñèñòåìíàÿ ñâÿçü è åå ïîñëåäñòâèÿ....................................284 Ïîäðàæàíèå è óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå......................................................285 Áîëåçíü ñëåäóåò çà äóøîé...................................................................286 «Ëó÷øå ÿ, ÷åì òû»...............................................................................286 Çíàþùàÿ ëþáîâü................................................................................289 Ãîòîâíîñòü ðåáåíêà ê «èñ÷åçíîâåíèþ»..............................................289 Äàæå åñëè òû óéäåøü, ÿ îñòàíóñü......................................................290 «ß ïîñëåäóþ çà òîáîé»........................................................................291 «ß ïîæèâó åùå íåìíîãî»...................................................................291 Âåðà, ñïîñîáñòâóþùàÿ áîëåçíè.........................................................292 Èñöåëÿþùàÿ ëþáîâü..........................................................................292 Áîëåçíü è èñêóïëåíèå âèíû..............................................................293 Êîìïåíñàöèÿ ïóòåì èñêóïëåíèÿ âèíû, ïðèíîñÿùàÿ äâîéíîå ñòðàäàíèå..........................................................................293 Óðàâíîâåøèâàíèå ïóòåì ïðèíÿòèÿ æèçíè êàê äàðà è ïðèìèðèòåëüíûõ äåéñòâèé..........................................................294 Èñêóïëåíèå âèíû êàê ñóððîãàò îòíîøåíèé.....................................295 Íà Çåìëå âèíà ïðåõîäÿùà..................................................................296 Áîëåçíü îäíîãî, çàìåùàþùàÿ èñêóïëåíèå äðóãîãî..........................296 Áîëåçíü èç-çà îòêàçà ïðèíÿòü ñîáñòâåííûõ ðîäèòåëåé....................297 Óâàæåíèå ðîäèòåëåé ñîîòâåòñòâóåò óâàæåíèþ Çåìëè.......................297 Íåîñóùåñòâëåííîå.............................................................................297 Ðàññòàíîâêà: «ß ïîñëåäóþ çà òîáîé»..................................................299 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ìàòü ñëåäóåò çà ñâîèì óìåðøèì ðåáåíêîì-èíâàëèäîì.....................................................................307 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ëó÷øå óìåðåòü, ÷åì ïîêëîíèòüñÿ îòöó........................318 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Ïîñëåäñòâèÿ äåòñêîãî ïîëèîìèåëèòà, òÿæåëîé áåðåìåííîñòè è òðóäíûõ ðîäîâ........................................324 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Èäåíòèôèêàöèÿ ñ îäíèì èç ÷ëåíîâ ñåìüè ïðîòèâîïîëîæíîãî ïîëà.................................................................330 Èäåíòèôèêàöèÿ ñ ëèöîì ïðîòèâîïîëîæíîãî ïîëà êàê ïðè÷èíà ãîìîñåêñóàëüíîñòè è ïñèõîçîâ.................................333 Ñûí â êà÷åñòâå çàìåñòèòåëÿ äðóãà ìàòåðè.................................335 Ïîçíàíèå ñëóæèò îñíîâîé àêòà èñöåëåíèÿ....................................335 Ðàññòàíîâêà: «Ëó÷øå ÿ, ÷åì òû».......................................................336 Ðàññòàíîâêè ñåìüè âîçäåéñòâóþò ÷åðåç îáðàçû âíóòðåííåé êàðòèíû...........................................................................................342 ×òî òàêîå «ïðàâèëüíîå»?....................................................................343 Ðàññòàíîâêè ñåìüè ñ ïîìîùüþ ñèìâîëîâ.........................................344 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Îäèí áðàò óìåð âñêîðå ïîñëå ðîæäåíèÿ, äðóãîé ïîêîí÷èë ñàìîóáèéñòâîì...................................................345 Ñàìîóáèéñòâî èç ëþáâè.....................................................................349 ×òîáû çàùèòèòüñÿ îò áîëè, ìû èùåì âèíîâàòîãî...........................349 Íåóìåñòíûå âîïðîñû.........................................................................350 Êàê äîëæåí ïîñòóïàòü òåðàïåâò â ïðîöåññå ðàññòàíîâêè ñåìüè.....350 Êîãäà ñàì ïàöèåíò äîëæåí âñòàòü íà ñâîå ìåñòî â êîíñòåëëÿöèè ... 351 Ðàññòîÿíèå ìåæäó ìåñòàìè óìåðøèõ è æèâûõ â êîíñòåëëÿöèè.....351 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Íàðêîìàíèÿ äî÷åðè âñëåäñòâèå îòñóòñòâèÿ ìóæñêèõ ýíåðãèé â ñåìåéíîé ñèñòåìå...........................................352 Äåòè äîëæíû ñëåäîâàòü çà ñâîèì îòöîì, òàê æå êàê èõ ìàòü äîëæíà ñëåäîâàòü çà ñâîèì ìóæåì.................................................357 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Îòñóòñòâèå ýìïàòèè ê ìóæ÷èíàì................................360 Ñèñòåìíîå ïðåâîñõîäñòâî íàñòîÿùåãî..............................................365  ñåìüÿõ äåòè çàìåùàþò ïàðòíåðîâ ïî îòíîøåíèÿì, ïðåäøåñòâóþùèì íûíåøíåìó áðàêó ðîäèòåëåé...........................365 Ðîæäåíèå âíåáðà÷íûõ äåòåé âîâðåìÿ áðàêà.................................366 Ñîîáùàòü äåòÿì îá àáîðòå íåëüçÿ.....................................................367 Êîãäà ðåøåíèÿ ïðîáëåìû íåò............................................................368 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Íåñ÷àñòíûé ñëó÷àé ñ ñûíîì â ñîîòâåòñòâèè ñ ïðàâèëîì: «Ëó÷øå ÿ, ÷åì òû, äîðîãîé ïàïà!».............................369 Ðàññòàíîâêà: Àíîðåêñèÿ êàê ðåçóëüòàò âíóòðåííåãî óáåæäåíèÿ: «Ëó÷øå ÿ, ÷åì òû, äîðîãîé ïàïà!»..............................373 Âîë÷èé àïïåòèò è ïîñëåäóþùàÿ ðâîòà: áóëèìèÿ.............................377 Êàê âàæíî áûòü â ñîãëàñèè ñ Âûñøèì.............................................378 Äâà ðîäà çíàíèÿ..................................................................................379 Ýïèëîã........................................................................................................381
Âíèìàíèå ! Ïðîèçâîäèòñÿ ïðåäâàðèòåëüíàÿ çàïèñü â äîëãîñðî÷íóþ îáó÷àþùóþ ãðóïïó ïî ñèñòåìíîé òåðàïèè Á. Õåëëèíãåðà. Íà÷àëî ïðîãðàììû ïëàíèðóåòñÿ â 2002 ãîäó. òåë.: (095) 474-2541, 474-1101. ÎÁÓ×ÀÞÙÈÉ ÂÈÄÅÎÔÈËÜÌ: ÑÈÑÒÅÌÍÀß ÏÑÈÕÎÒÅÐÀÏÈß Á.ÕÅËËÈÍÃÅÐÀ. Çàïèñü ñåìèíàðà ïðîõîäèâøåãî 19-21 èþëÿ 2001 ã. â ã. Ìîñêâå. Âåäóùèé Ãóíòõàðä Âåáåð (Ãåðìàíèÿ), âåäóùèé ñïåöèàëèñò ïî ñåìåéíûì è îðãàíèçàöèîííûì ðàññòàíîâêàì, àâòîð êíèãè «Êðèçèñû ëþáâè: Ñèñòåìíàÿ ïñèõîòåðàïèÿ Á. Õåëëèíãåðà», äèðåêòîð Èíñòèòóòà ñèñòåìíûõ ðåøåíèé. òåë.: (095) 474-2541, 474-1101
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